You don't have to be anti-man to be pro-woman.

Watching Sex and The City, reminds me of what lynette said: "All we need are girlfriends and a dog..." Not that any of these posse had a dog, but seriously, if, given a choice, you have a wonderful fantabulous career, the 5 Cs, a bunch of great gal pals, and a stable relationship with a gorgeous, sexy and successful man, why would you want to settle by going down with the big M? I certainly do not want to end up having a pathetic lonely old senile life years down that retirement road, but neither do I want to get into that comfortable marriage lifestyle and becoming a Stepford Wife - in my case, becoming a big fat minah after bearing several kids who'll end up giving me double, or, possibly triple of all the shitty deeds I once did. But of course... who's saying I don't want a man?